A friend once said she loved that I just “say it like it is.” I replied that I “call ’em as I see ’em”. That is a completely different thing.

I am Ann Bishop (dropped my married name Carson) and this is my story…as I see it.

…as we see ’em…

This is one person’s opinion about marriage, separation and, eventually, divorce. My opinions may change as I go through this process, and they may change based on feedback from others. Or they might never change.

I welcome anyone’s view and opinion, provided it is given respectfully.

Throughout this completely unplanned journey I will be posting what is happening now and how I think I got here. I do not know if it will help me at all, but it might help others to know they are not the only one going through what feels like a bad 1980’s movie.

I have never done anything like this, so if you are reading this, please be patient.

That last line is more for me than anyone else.